5 Signs It’s Time to Seek Therapy in California: What Residents Often Overlook
In California, about 5.5 million adults have a mental health condition, which is more than 6 times the population of San Francisco. Of those, roughly 1.2 million adults live with a serious mental illness that can significantly interfere with daily life. (National Alliance on Mental Illness, 2024). Often, individuals struggle silently with stress, anxiety, or burnout due to fears of being judged, stigma, or potential consequences if they speak up. Instead, they bottle up their struggles and wait for a crisis before seeking help. But therapy isn’t only for people in crisis. In fact, therapy works best when we use its tools in our everyday life. So how do we know when the “right” time is to seek help?
When everyday stress feels overwhelming
Brené Brown, Ph.D., LMSW, discusses this in her book Atlas of the Heart (2021):
“Stress is a manageable pressure, like a game of whack-a-mole, where you can continue to function and take action. Overwhelm, however, is an extreme state of stress where you feel incapable of taking the next step, unable to prioritize or even begin tasks, and may feel stuck and unable to function. The key difference is the ability to act; with stress, you can still function, but with overwhelm, you are unable to function.”
When routine stressors like work tasks, parenting, or even the commute in the bay area begin to feel overwhelming, they can start affecting multiple areas of your life. Changes in your sleep, relationships, or daily functioning may be signs it’s time to connect with a local Campbell therapist.
When your emotions feel unpredictable or unmanageable
Some common concerns we see at The Brown Therapy Group when clients first come in include mood swings, irritability, and frequent feelings of sadness. These can signal underlying anxiety, depression, or emotional overwhelm that deserves compassionate care.
When you are withdrawing from friends, family, or community
Withdrawal is often overlooked but can quietly impact mental and emotional health. In a community-focused city like Meridian, isolation can be an early indicator of anxiety, depression, or burnout. Therapy provides a space to rebuild healthy relationships, establish boundaries, and cultivate a more balanced, fulfilling life.
When you are struggling to find motivation or purpose
A lack of motivation or purpose often comes with low energy, loss of interest in hobbies, or a sense of being “stuck.” Whether you’re a busy professional in downtown San Jose or a parent balancing family life, burnout can creep in unnoticed. Everyone hits a wall sometimes. Reaching out doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’re wise enough to recognize your limits. Seek support early.
When you are coping with change, loss, or trauma
Major life transitions, like divorce, job loss, grief, or moving, can be particularly challenging. Different therapeutic approaches, including EMDR for trauma or CBT for anxiety and depression, can help process these experiences. At The Brown Therapy Group, we also offer couples therapy using Gottman, RLT, and EFT approaches, all focused on strengthening relationships. Seeking professional support during these times is normal and helps build resilience and healing.
Waiting until you hit your breaking point doesn’t help you or those who depend on you. Take the first step and reach out for a consultation. All of our therapists are happy to answer any questions about the process. Learn more about us here
Finding the right therapist can be difficult and may seem daunting, but we try to make the process as seamless as possible. We want to fit you with a therapist that specializes in the issues you are struggling with and one that you feel comfortable engaging with. At The Brown Therapy Group in Campbell, we see how stress, anxiety, and the demands of everyday life can slowly build up, often without people realizing it. When left unchecked, these feelings can turn into burnout, impacting your mood, energy, relationships, and overall well-being. You don’t have to do it alone. At The Brown Therapy Group, we provide a safe, supportive space to process emotions, set boundaries, and build tools to thrive.
